Other bloggers

I've just been surfing other tranny blogs when I should be working, but then I work best when the deadline is up to my neck.

I've been inspired by several tranny sites including Beckys Tg Blog,TV Dreams and Karol Cross.

http://www.beckysweb.co.uk

http://www.tvdreams.co.uk/

http://www.karolcross.com/

Karol makes me laugh as she does get into some unsual spots, maybe cos she's always clubbing. There is a serious side to it though when she shares her thought on her chosen lifestyle. One of her thoughts made me think about my acceptance of myself as I am.

It made me realise that I have always fought to hide my feminine traits and the only one who is suffering is me.

I've only recently accepted whole heartedly that I am a tranny and happy with it, but still hide it from nearly everyone. I don't feel guilty but I justify it by thinking that I am protecting my family. But if I try to hide it, then how can I expect so called normal ( i.e. non-transgendered) to accept the concept of being transgendered?

I think I must come out against any sexual prejudice even if it is e.g. only a snigger when gay characters mince in situation comedies. That may lead to my own gender being questioned and I will have to answer unambiguosly that sexuality should not be confused with gender.

It is only after accepting that I am happy to be a tranny that I can feel comfortable with being a man.IMHO I am a better person and a more rounded person ( no pun intended).

I would love to be in some of the situations Karol has mentioned where she has been mistaken for a woman. That has only happened to me once... and I was dressed in drab!

The other thing that has occurred to me is that, after accepting i am happy as a tranny, I opened up my mind and wondered if i was bisexual. If that means attracted to men sexually, then the answer is no. Then again I am attracted to people according to their characters irrespective of their sex, so I can be attracted aesthetically to men. Technically that would make me bisexual I suppose

What about fantasies ? I think that will have to be a new thread.

Julie
xx